tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-72151150093966940092024-02-02T07:48:35.972-08:00Kimberly Reyes Lifestyle by DesignHelping you design a life connected to your true NorthKimberly Reyeshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06390421398615736547noreply@blogger.comBlogger150125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7215115009396694009.post-55975581940045618002014-11-15T17:45:00.000-08:002014-11-15T17:45:10.061-08:00Getting Back to Me.... Putting Together My Dream Team<br />
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Paying attention to what I need, want and desire... Then working to lovingly make those things a reality....</div>
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Kindness begins with Me.... to Me.</div>
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It has always been easier to be kind to others.</div>
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It is a learned skill to be kind & loving to myself.</div>
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I spoke at a conference recently and it was a very interactive talk. I asked the women what their lives desire was... What did they dream about... Who did they want to be.... What did they want their ideal life to look like?</div>
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To my sadness... The room was silent and there were blank looks. On further examination--- those women were treading through life surviving. They were not thriving. They did not even allow themselves to dream...</div>
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When you allow yourself to dream and set an intention... The energy around you takes you down the path to the destination of your dream. The destination is a shift in a paradigm that allows you to live in a different space energetically. It's not a physical place... It's the place where you are tying to shift to energetically. a mindset.<br />
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I have worked with hundreds of people in annual Master Manifesting, Goal Setting and Paradigm Shifting workshops... I teach what I have done with my own life for the last 25 years. There is no reason that I should be the person that I am today based on where I came from. I am the person that I want to be... and with every shift that I decide to make... I am settling even deeper into who I am. The whole Me.<br />
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Dream... Then Dream Bigger... Intentionally set your intentions.... </div>
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This allows you to Manifest your dreams, goals and desires.... leading you to the destination set by your intention.</div>
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I do so much work behind the scenes for and on myself. Some I share. Some I don't. I always have a destination in mind... So that I can recognize the opportunities when they present themselves.<br />
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I want to share the next stage of my journey openly because I BELIEVE that it can be of service. There is a lot of shame and shaming surrounding everything that I will address. It should all be mainstream and the norm in my opinion and I do know that when people talk about things openly... the shock and stigma fall away in time.<br />
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I am putting together a pretty amazing dream team! I am practicing what I preach... I truly BELIEVE in hiring the right fit professionals for the job to make the task/goal easier to achieve....<br />
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It was my goal to keep getting better after 40- Better for ME. I was really good about getting my nails done every 2 weeks... massages at least once a month... Working out... and then I slid backward a bit with all of the "life events" of the last 18 months.... But, I am getting back on track and I am once again sharing my story.<br />
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I Know for a fact that I can DO IT ALL myself... The beauty is that I KNOW that I DON'T have to anymore. I am excited to introduce you to the team... I am wrapping up solidifying everyone... interviewing a few more... and then I will share with you!<br />
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let's take away the scary, the unknown, learn about new things, options that we didn't know that we could consider... And learn to love ourselves--- getting better with age.<br />
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The Pathfinder Series TV Show is the next step in my journey! I am setting up the team to bring you the next stages of my journey... All seen on TV and in my blog!</div>
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I search to see what guides and motivates you to keep moving and searching for your authentic self? </div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">My True North and to Guide You to Discover Yours as well.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">I was not raised in or around my tribe, </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">yet I </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">clearly have traits that are strengths </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">among my people...</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">My Northeastern Native American Tribe - The Passamaquoddy doesn't look like the Indians that you see in the movies... Yet... It looks like me. Is my internal compass guided by my ancestors?</span></div>
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<li><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">In doing my research their medicine wheel has a True North that points to empathy. Their healers desired & developed this gift.</span></li>
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<li><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">The Passamaquoddy were spear fishermen and lived on the water. Their lives depended on it.</span></li>
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<li><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">I am innately drawn to the water. I am miserable without water and I am at calm and peace when in or around water... Many times it's not enough to touch water... I need to physically cross a body of water...</span></li>
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<li><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">Folklore of the Passamaquoddy includes stories of mermaids...</span></li>
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<li><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">Folklore for my tribe looks & feels different than Western Tribes. It resembles Russian Folklore.</span></li>
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<li><span style="background-color: white; font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">The tribe is located in upstate Maine and into Nova Scotia.</span></li>
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<li><span style="background-color: white; font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif; line-height: 18px;">They were world-class craftsmen when it came to birch-bark canoes. They also practiced highly decorative forms of basket-weaving, and carpentry.</span></li>
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<li><span style="background-color: white; font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">Art and the creation of items has been a cornerstone in my life since birth and I have made a living most of my life through that create outlet. </span></li>
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<li><span style="line-height: 18px;"><span style="background-color: white; font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">The particular traditional types of art and patterns would be something that I would be drawn to... without knowing or seeing it prior to my research. Very Unique in nature and design.</span></span></li>
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<li><span style="line-height: 18px;"><span style="background-color: white; font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">They maintained a nomadic existence in the well-watered woods and mountains of the coastal region</span></span></li>
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<li><span style="background-color: white; font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">I never get lost... You can drop me in the middle of the wilderness and I can find my way home. It has happened. I have led a group of lost hikers out of the wilderness when they were lost on a hike. Whether urban or rural... I don't need a map. I have a keen Spacial awareness. This is a gift...</span></li>
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<span style="background-color: white;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">Has my Native American genes and ancestral lifestyle canalized certain behaviors, likes and desires so deeply in me that it drives me today? Coincidences? Maybe... This is j</span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">ust food for thought...</span></span></div>
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<span style="color: #444444; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Are you caught up in chaos & being the Victim in your relationships? </span></div>
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<span style="color: #444444; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I've done it... I think we all have. </span></div>
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<span style="color: #444444; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I encourage you to look at your relationships and break </span></div>
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<span style="color: #444444; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I am not just talking about Love relationships... Patterns are carried over into all of our relationships and maybe... this is what is keeping Us from truly moving forward personally and professionally?</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white;"><span style="color: #444444; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 25.600000381469727px;">Whether we know it or not, most of us react to life as victims. Whenever we refuse to take responsibility for ourselves, we are unconsciously choosing to react as victim. This inevitably creates feelings of anger, fear, guilt or inadequacy and leaves us feeling betrayed, or taken advantage of by others.</span></span></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: white;"><span style="color: #444444; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 25.600000381469727px;">Sometimes this shows up as self sabotage. When someone safe shows up for the victim... Instead of taking responsibility for their actions... the victim may lash out at the safe person for their own feelings of inadequacy. Making that person the villain - perpetrator. Other victims may gather around to support and keep the victim standing right where they are. </span></span></span><br />
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<span style="color: #444444; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white; line-height: 25.600000381469727px;">There is a psychological and social model that was drawn out in 1968</span><span style="background-color: white; line-height: 22.399999618530273px;"> by <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Karpman_drama_triangle" target="_blank">Stephen Karpman, in his article "Fairy Tales and Script Drama Analysis"</a> </span><span style="background-color: white; line-height: 25.600000381469727px;">It is sometimes called the victim triangle and sometimes the drama triangle. (thank you to <a href="http://richellejarrell.com/" target="_blank">Richelle Jarrell </a>for having this important conversation with me.)</span></span></div>
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<li><span style="color: #444444;">Rescuer - The <i><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rescue" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: none; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; text-decoration: none;" title="Rescue">rescuer</a></i>, who intervenes, seemingly out of a desire to help the situation or the <a class="mw-redirect" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Underdog_(competition)" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: none; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; text-decoration: none;" title="Underdog (competition)">underdog</a>.</span></li>
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<span style="color: #444444;">For those that participate in this model, we all have a go to role. Mine has been Rescuer and today... Truth Teller. I know better and have fallen into this pattern with people lately. I have done it to stand in the space with them because I love them. I want them to just be and to support them on their journey. I have not gotten drawn into the chaos. I have however allowed people to claim the role of victim without calling them on it. That is just as bad... That is not being of service to them... and I know that it is not standing in my personal power. </span><br />
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<span style="color: #444444;">And now that I have refused to show up as the rescuer... I have been labelled the perpetrator. When you function in this paradigm you are playing one of the 3 roles. Which role have you taken up and what role are you requiring the people that care about you play to make you feel comfortable? </span><br />
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<span style="color: #444444;">When you put me in the role as rescuer... that is not me. I am not here to rescue anyone. I cannot save anyone. I can support them, Encourage them and be there as a teacher. I can be the safe place to land. I cannot save you... particularly from yourself. If you show up and sabotage that... You have created the dynamic and set me... up to fail. That is sabotaging both of us.</span><br />
<span style="color: #444444;"><br /></span><span style="color: #444444;">Honestly... When I stand in the role of rescuer... I am being the victim and the perpetrator to myself. I forgive ME--- for being so hard on myself, trying to save people that don't need to be saved, for allowing others to choose my path instead of walking my own healthy path... and for abusing myself in the process.</span><br />
<span style="color: #444444;"><br /></span><span style="color: #444444;">In the past... no one had to be hard on me. I was the hardest on myself. With the help of <a href="http://richellejarrell.com/" target="_blank">Richelle Jarell</a>... I am letting that go <3 The most important loving relationship that I want in my life is with myself. I love me and I am the woman that I want to be.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #444444;">Do you create chaos... blame the other and then cut & run? That is sabotage. Healthy is standing in the place where the healing begins.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #444444;">There are many damaged souls. We are all on a journey. We ALL have the ability to shift paradigms, See ourselves authentically and move to a higher state of consciousness. Do you want to stay the victim or do you want to heal that pattern and move to a healthier state of being connected in relationships. You do not have to stay there. It is essential to see it, so that you can shift out of it. Being the victim is the truly the purest form of being a Me... Creating the chaos of an us against them mentality.... </span><br />
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<span style="color: #444444;">I am me all of the time: solid, consistent, kind and loving. I am not perfect. I have never asked you to be perfect. However, I don't Ever make you responsible for my healing, pain or journey. I have offered you love and support and asked for the same in return. </span><br />
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<span style="color: #444444;"><br /></span><span style="color: #444444;">I love & believe in you. Nothing has changed- nothing ever does. It doesn't matter what happens in the chaotic world. My feelings don't change about people. They are not easy to gain and they are not apt to fade....</span><br />
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<span style="color: #444444;">I am not responsible for your actions. I will however be there to love you, help you up & to walk together side by side. No guilt. No blame. I own my stuff and you take responsibility for yours. I am not willing to carry it for you or save you from yourself. I will be there to support you as you work through it... There is a difference.</span><br />
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It's time to start thinking about Networking as part of your business strategy. It's not enough to just show up somewhere and hope that business drops in your lap. You can make this so much easier and profitable... when you learn a <a href="http://www.krlifestylebydesign.com/#!networking/c2i9" target="_blank">few tips, tools & techniques</a>.</div>
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<li>There are many Hoppers following the "dream" & the shiny penny... they jump from business opportunity to business opportunity and never excel and move forward in any business.</li>
<li>There are many people that are involved in multiple home businesses.</li>
<li>There are other entrepreneurial hobbiests that don't really need the business to excel to survive because they have a dual income family, retirement, second job... or other source of income. They like the idea and feel of owning a business. It may give them a sense of purpose... but, they are driven by a different model than the others.</li>
<li>There are people that are looking for recruits.</li>
<li>There are people looking to sell their products and services.</li>
<li>There are people looking for collaborative partners.</li>
<li>There are people looking for strategic alliances.</li>
<li>There are people that want to truly help you move your business forward</li>
<li>There are people that want to connect you with people that help you move your business forward.</li>
<li>There are people there that are just there to find a way to help themselves.</li>
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Working with clients on a daily basis, it's clear that there is a sea of confusion out there. A coaching epidemic where people have gotten so much divergent information that they are not sure what to do or what direction to move. It is paralyzing them, making them feel unsure and unequipped!<br />
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This is ONE of the key reasons people sign up for my <a href="http://www.krlifestylebydesign.com/#!vip-program/c1bdq" target="_blank">360 Degree V.I.P. Day</a>. After doing a forensic analysis on the BIG picture, I help clients clear the clutter and chaos so that they can stand still and get a solid base to move forward. Clients can pick and choose what information they have gotten from coaching programs and incorporate that into an over all system. One size does not fit all. Take what you need and leave the rest behind. Stop beating yourself up for paying for coaching that didn't serve you. Let it go and let's fix it... so that you can move forward with power and clarity. Maybe you just need to be matched with the "right fit" coach...<br />
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Once you have a solid base and know where you are headed... I can refer you to vetted professionals... In the proper order... when you need them... so that you don't have to keep re-doing things over and over...<br />
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There are so any programs and people pitching their message, how do you know who to turn to, who is a good fit for you and who you can trust? One shiny penny and then another... BIG marketing campaigns... One message louder than the next... Who has the content and value to back up their packaging?<br />
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<b>Here is one of the problems that I see...</b><br />
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Coaches are popping up everywhere... People are borrowing and stealing verbiage and messages. What happens when an amazing coach comes up with an incredible original idea, is super talented, can truly be of service to their clients and community... but they just aren't that spectacular at marketing or maybe they are just okay and haven't developed a marketing machine...<br />
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Someone else comes along, listens to that coaches original idea and message... and adapts the concepts and verbiage as their own. They are a marketing guru. Clients are lined up around the corner. They are charging top dollar and selling themselves as the best innovator, coach and problem solver. They are the shiny penny... Loud & Proud. Claiming all credit for creating the unique program. I often see these people selling, recruiting and promoting from a fear based model. That is unfair psychological warfare.... It's creating confusion, guilt and chaos in people's lives and businesses. However, the major Problem is... It's only the shell of the program that is the same... the words, the verbiage, the general concept...<br />
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Think about the Olympic Runner's Coach. </div>
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<b>A Winning Olympic Team and Produce Gold Medal Winners.</b></div>
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It's a detailed plan, well thought out, researched, tested, re-worked, successful and publicly implemented.</div>
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It involves:<br />
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<li>Team clothing - uniforms, specific shoes, style and shape for speed and performance</li>
<li>Team colors - to create a sense of power, success and unity</li>
<li>Dietary restrictions - a detailed account of what to eat and when for the best performance</li>
<li>When to wake up</li>
<li>When to sleep and how much sleep to get</li>
<li>Performance Psychology</li>
<li>Team building Psychology</li>
<li>Workout Schedule - Work Smarter... not harder for best results - detailed outline for maximum results.</li>
<li>Power Scheduling</li>
<li>Community building</li>
<li>Public Relations </li>
<li>Marketing to create cheerleader in the community</li>
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She has created a winning system. Other teams and coaches have come along and watched her progress. What happens when one program succeeds? Others try to replicate it... and cash in on it's success.<br />
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An independent coach "borrows" the Olympic Coach's information, creates a program and recruits runners/athletes to take part in their independent coaching program. The independent coach has the same shiny warm up suits, the sleek running shoes, a flashy team color, logo, and may have diet plan <br />
and workout schedule. The website looks similar. It all looks fancy and professional from the outside. It appears to be an Olympic Gold Medal Athlete producing machine. The independent coach is successful at self promotion. He markets and recruits clients.<br />
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The problem is that the independent coach... has tried to bench mark from the Olympic Coach. They have captured verbiage, shiny objects, and the outer shell... BUT... the new coach does not have the content, experience or unique system to create an Olympic Gold Medal Athlete. They don't have the goods. They don't have the steps on how to get from point A to point B. They do not have what it takes, because they did not create the program. They copied the shell and marketed it as their own original system.... They adapted step 1 and step 12... but were not able to reproduce the <u>details</u> involved in steps 2-11. Their clients go through the steps over and over and over, are bewildered as to why the are not reaching GOLD. The athlete was not given the proper tools and techniques to become a Gold Medal Winner.... because they did not learn from the original system. They got side tracked with the shiny penny and bought into a lesser product that was marketed well.<br />
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<b><span style="font-size: large;">There are Talented, Original, Amazing Coaches. </span></b></div>
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<b><span style="font-size: large;">I <span style="color: purple;">BELIEVE</span> in Coaching. </span></b></div>
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<b><span style="font-size: large;">I <span style="color: purple;">BELIEVE</span> in Business Consultants. </span></b></div>
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Get referrals from people you trust and then... interview. I am extremely careful with who I refer. Not everyone is a good fit and I am a <a href="http://www.krlifestylebydesign.com/" target="_blank">super connector</a>. I know who needs to work with who. I have vetted professional that I know and refer. It's one of my gifts and something that I do for clients. Make sure that the person that is referring you has your best interest at heart and that you feel good about the connection. Don't just follow the shiny penny... It's hard to watch clients struggle with this. Both they and their businesses are in pain. One shiny penny after the other....<br />
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<span style="color: purple; font-size: large;"><b>I Honor & Appreciate You!</b></span><span style="text-align: start;"> </span><br />
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<b><span style="color: #990000;">Kimberly Reyes</span></b><br />
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<i>Of course! </i><br />
<i>I Invite You to</i><br />
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<i>We have all learned lessons, been hurt-- </i></div>
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<li>I have withdrawn and run from community because I've been hurt.</li>
<li>Women are mean, vindictive, selfish, & backbiting.</li>
<li>Men make better friends...</li>
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Yes there are people like that out there. The term mean girls didn't show up out of thin air... It shouldn't hold you back from living the fullest life that you can.<br />
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<b>Harvard Health reports:</b><br />
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<li><b>Men </b>live a longer, healthier, happier life when they have-- a Wife.</li>
<li><b>Women</b> live a longer, healthier, happier life when they have-- deeper, meaningful friendships and relationships with women.</li>
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Be Conscious and Have Boundaries.<br />
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It doesn't mean that you give yourself away until your well is depleted.<br />
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We can all learn to do it better... </div>
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<span style="color: purple; font-size: large;">It's a gift, a strength... not a weakness. It's Lovely!</span></div>
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1. <b>Learn to Love Yourself & Acknowledge Your Gifts!</b><br />
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<li>It's imperative to stand in your personal power to create and consistently adhere to the boundaries that you have created.</li>
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2. <b>It's Okay to Say NO</b><br />
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<li>Guilt be gone. My favorite mantra... "Guilt Sucks... Let it Go." Saying this over and over to myself has gotten me through some tough decisions & allowed me to learn to let the guilt go...</li>
<li>Give yourself permission to say no. You are a giver. You give all of the time. You do not need to over do it and give yourself away.</li>
<li>You have value. You can say no. </li>
<li>When you shift the paradigm and the way that you think about giving, it lifts a huge weight off of your shoulders & When you say Yes... It's a gift... Not a duty or responsibility. </li>
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We's are inclusive. They want to collaborate & give to see the other succeed. They don't operate from a place of competition, sabotage or sole success. They are innately Givers.<br />
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<li>We need to look at and address Healthy giving.</li>
<li>There is a difference. No heavy lifting. Only those that want and <b>are able</b> to rise will. There is no saving anyone. We save ourselves. We can have the support of others... but to truly be saved we have to do the heavy lifting ourselves.</li>
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5. <b>Learn to Ask for what you Want & Need.... then Learn to receive what is being offered.</b><br />
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<li>Think about this one. It's important. It's tough. It's beautiful when you get it.</li>
<li>Just because you are a giver does not mean that you do not need to receive in return. No one wants to be around a self-sacrificing martyr... It is actually selfish to just give in a community of givers and not allow others to give to you. </li>
<li>If you truly want to be in community with givers - A WE needs you to receive what they are offering to you. It's a gift that they are giving you. They do not want to to receive from you if you are not accepting as well. </li>
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<li>Be aware of the difference - A Me doesn't care if you receive. A ME has no problem asking for what they want & need. A self-sacrificing martyr... that is a Giver attracts ME's...</li>
<li>Which sounds safer, more fulfilling and productive? </li>
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6. <b> Give to Yourself First</b><br />
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<li>Love Yourself First.</li>
<li>It's more than okay to take care of yourself. It is essential! How can you continue to give if your well has run dry?</li>
<li>My friend and Strategic Alliance Partner, <a href="http://patrinawisdom.com/" target="_blank">Patrina Wisdom</a> teaches women all about Sacred Self Care. Patrina invites her clients to take a break from their lives... take time to take care of themselves, while being surrounded by a sacred community of other women, take a moment to breathe... REJUVENATE, RECLAIM AND REVITALIZE your body, mind and spirit in her annual retreats. I invite you to check out her <a href="http://patrinawisdom.com/services/retreats/" target="_blank">website</a> if you are ready to learn the art of Sacred Self Care.</li>
<li>Baby Steps - You can do it. Just take the first step to learning to take care of yourself first.</li>
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If it's not... I say let's rethink it and shift your energy in a new direction! Shift your paradigm and the way that you think about giving.</div>
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I <b><span style="color: #990000;">LOVE</span></b> that I am a Giver! It expresses the feminine energy that is a deep part of who I am. When I suppress that part of me and function primarily from masculine energy in business... I am not balanced<br />
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One of my main messages in everything that I do: consulting, coaching, speaking, & writing is to help each of you learn to accept your innate gifts... AND to learn to see others in a new way so that you can honor and appreciate the people all around you. Once you see yourself clearly and the people in front of you... it will change your world.<br />
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Welcome to my <b><a href="http://www.krlifestylebydesign.com/#!vip-full-day/cc0x">V.I.P Day</a> </b>- Part of my work with clients is truly seeing yourself and your gifts. </div>
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If you are an introvert - let's figure out why that is a positive.<br />
If you are a giver - let's identify how that best serves you.<br />
If you are an extrovert - let's figure out what is working, what isn't & how to soar.<br />
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None of these traits are negative. They need to be acknowledged and not put away & hidden. Stop letting the world tell you that you need to be like someone else. I don't want you to be anyone but you! We can all learn to embrace who we are, how we show up and how we can safely & authentically thrive! Take back your personal power!<br />
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Let's be <b><span style="color: #990000;"><a href="http://www.krlifestylebydesign.com/#!vip-full-day/cc0x">REAL</a></span></b>! We all need to get tools, techniques & develop skills to truly sit with any trait so that it fully serves us. There is nothing worse than being self conscious or insecure in business. Even the most talented business person can be bogged down by self doubt. When you embrace who you are... those things fade to the background, allowing you to shine and be successful.<br />
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Pathfinder, Lifestyle Curator, Super Connector,Master Networker, Author & Speaker<br />
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With my background in psychology, my post as Super Connector & Master Networker - - I often work with clients and teach them how to interact & connect with someone that has a different personality style. We all long for community and to connect on a deeper level. Most of us did not learn those skills from our family of origin AND the ease in which we connected as children has left us long ago....<br />
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I work with each client to create a safe harbor for exploration & discovery. During that specialized process we explore ways that we show up, see the world and ways that we can shift our personal paradigms to see others in a new light, and connect with more success and ease... Introversion and extroversion is a key element that we tackle. It's life changing when we identify ourselves and can see others without judgement.<br />
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Judgement and debunking misconceptions is a vital part of the process.... Invariably, the way that we think about and identify each other, and even ourselves, is based on our own personal lens.... That Filter has been affected by our past, surroundings, personal style and experiences. Our perception very rarely has anything to do with the person being judged ....</div>
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Always a new paradigm to shift to... and through to the next. My life has been a series of continually shifting, flowing paradigms as I work on the journey to the life that I want and to the Best person that I can be...<br />
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This work isn't for everyone. Many don't even know where to start... I have been doing this for over 25 years and every time I tackle something Big... Something else shows itself.<br />
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I work closely with women and in community to help others on their journey. They know that I am not perfect, that I have lived a thousand lives, that I will always be me and honest... But, most importantly they know that I am a safe place to land... because I live it and I understand.<br />
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Do I need to share this because I am an extrovert that needs to be heard? No. I would be happy as a clam to journal and tuck it away. I share because what I learned in the beginning of this journey, is that when I share it reaches people. People that I may not reach any other way... and people that may not be reached by anyone else. The letters and messages keep me sharing. It's not always fun. I see change. I am of service, because I always want other women's journey to be easier than mine. If I can make one women's journey easier... It's worth it.<br />
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<b>I didn't use to share. I didn't used to cry or touch people either... It's a journey. </b></div>
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<b>Now... I am known in community as the crier and hugger... It's a journey.</b></div>
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Was it easier when I was not connected, didn't see myself clearly or others? Absolutely. I have this internal moral compass that guides me and I just have to keep striving to be the best that I can be. I have to take other people into consideration. With boundaries, I have to acknowledge how I touch the people that I come across... Always conscious.<br />
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Our family of origin and the past that we've led creates our filters...</div>
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I have been talking about releasing guilt since the beginning of my work: since 1988. My motto that I created to help me move through and release the guilt from childhood has served me well, "Guilt Sucks, Let it Go!"<br />
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The next stage of the journey was tackling Fear. Fear is a biggy for most of us. The fight and flight response was a go to for me. I would cut and run at the drop of a hat. It didn't take much. I would stand my ground and fight to the death to defend and protect myself. That usually showed up with words which were sharper than any sword. But, if you disappointed me. I would leave. Learning to stand still is not an easy task... I am standing still.<br />
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So... the next stage was shown to me. I love Brene Brown and have been referring her since she released her first Tedx video. I just never got the shame thing. I got guilt. I got fear. I could see how shame manifested in others (funny how that works). I was not able to identify shame in my life. Not that I identified with. I was sure it was there... I just couldn't see it.<br />
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Then comes the next paradigm shift...<br />
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I was able to identify shame in my life: what it is, how it shows up & how it affects me.</div>
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When I am told, "You are an extrovert." To me... it means I don't like you, you irritate me and I can only take so much...<br />
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When my father told me at 12 that I could ONLY go to the Large family reunion if... "I promised not to be myself." (he did not take me... )</div>
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When I was told by my mother to tone it down because I made my sister feel bad...</div>
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When I have dated men that ask me to shift when I am happy & I have to turn it off because it's too much energy for them to handle...</div>
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When I have dated men that ask for the "other" Kimmy to come back, because I can't keep it contained 100% of the time...</div>
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When my daughter tells me that she can't be around me & that she doesn't want to deal with me crying or ever hear how I feel-- that it is painful to deal with because she is an introvert...<br />
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What I realize is that All of my issues related to shame are around my extroversion. Extroversion is the way that a person is hard wired. We can learn to adapt and adjust... but, it's brain chemistry. </div>
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When there is criticism... and there has been a lot... I feel shame, my feelings get hurt and then I feel guilt that my energy has had an effect on other people in a negative way. I feel bad. To take it full circle... Fear comes in... I fear that if I show up with all of my power, energy and shine that I will be alone. That people will leave because I will damage them in some way. How is that for raw & authentic? Yup. Ouch...</div>
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In one way I envy the extrovert that is shallow and unaware.<br />
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On a daily basis when I do public speaking, writing, training, etc. I am the biggest champion of Introverts and I yell it from the mountain tops. Introverts haven't spoken up and have been told that they need to be like someone else. I hate that. </div>
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Truth is... I am a champion of people. I love people. I want everyone to be seen and appreciated for who they are and to cut each other some slack. Including Me. Sometimes I just want people to cut me a little slack. </div>
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When you know yourself and your personality style... You can see others more clearly too. When you see others clearly, there is a deeper understanding of where they are coming from and fewer judgments and misunderstanding. When you frame a person with your personal lens instead of seeing them authentically as they show up... You will never see authentic.</div>
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In the same vein... just because I am able to clearly see other people, I should not dim my light to make others feel like they are more. There is a healthy way to be considerate, compassionate and still be me. All of Me. </div>
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I dimmed my light to make others feel more comfortable. I dimmed my light so that my father would love me and allow others to see and love me. I dimmed my light for my mother so that I would not outshine my sister. I dimmed my light for men that I have dated to try to be a better partner. </div>
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I have tried. But, it seems that I cannot dim my light enough for my daughter. She does not want to be around me. No matter what I try. There is shame in that...</div>
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It is so funny that the thing that people are drawn to the most, is also the thing that is criticized that most.</div>
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I am confident of the future, my plans, my potential and my journey. I invite you to join me as I am... not as you want me to be. I like who I am and I am standing in my own personal power. </div>
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Just because you are feeling bad about yourself... I will not let you shame me. I respect & honor every woman that I hold space for. I expect the same in return. I will not dim my light or allow myself to take on the guilt. </div>
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<b><i><span style="color: purple;">No More Shame for Who I Am</span></i></b></div>
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I invite you to do the same. Once we honor ourselves and each other, life is beautiful.<br />
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I teach clients how to create a lasting and powerful
network. Part of that is really looking at how you show up and how you make the
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<b><span style="color: purple;">It goes beyond meeting someone on the phone or in a room at
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Time is the biggest gift that I can give anyone. I have so
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When I say that I will meet you. I do. I have driven back
from Los Angles to make an appointment. I drove back from a funeral in
Sacramento to meet with another busy industry leader... I made a midweek
appointment with a leading woman entrepreneur even though I had 3 speaking
engagements in 3 different cities this week. <o:p></o:p></div>
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We are all important. Each person that I schedule is
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When you change times with me, reschedule, and then not follow
through it sends a very clear message.
Life happens and things come up. BUT, when you reschedule with me
because your appointment after mine cancelled and you don't want to make the
drive to just meet with me.... You are
sending a very clear message about how much you respect or value me, my
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This happened to me 3 times in the last 4 years. Two of the
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So, I ask you? How are you showing up in your life and in
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If you are planning on moving through this business
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<o:p>Be gracious, Be consistent... Authentically want the best for yourself & Others... Be charming so that people know who they are dealing with every time you show up. It will help you build an empire!</o:p></div>
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Kimberly Reyeshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06390421398615736547noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7215115009396694009.post-34141284032827229852014-05-22T11:30:00.006-07:002014-05-22T12:06:04.898-07:00Women Leaders... This is for You!<br />
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<span style="background-color: white;"><span style="font-size: 13.63636302947998px;">Kimberly Reyes has created the community where you can have both! You need both to rise!</span><span style="font-size: 13.63636302947998px;"> </span></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: white;"><span style="font-size: 13.63636302947998px;">It has been in the works for years. It is all done with intention and every tiny detail is planned and deliberate... The beauty is that it is so organic... the community is enveloped in a safe harbor and never know the mechanics that creates the magic. Beautiful to see & experience...</span></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: white;"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: lucida grande, tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 20px;">A community of peers that cheer lead for you know where you are, how you feel & can identify with the journey that you are on. They know how to help you, support you and authentically want to see you succeed. There is no need for competition. This is a community of We's: egos are left at the door. </span></span></span></div>
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<li style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 20px;">Who shows up for you when you have had an off the charts day and you want to share your successes?</span></li>
<li style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 20px;">Who has your back & can give you authentic feedback?</span></li>
<li style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 20px;">Who has been on the journey for a while, can share vetted resources, trusted partners and just get's it?</span></li>
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<li style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: lucida grande, tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 20px;">You can't brag to your followers.... it leaves a bad taste in their mouths and dilutes your influence.</span></span></li>
<li style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: lucida grande, tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 20px;">You can't count on your followers to have your back: some will & some won't... but, rarely will you get trusted feedback. People are afraid to be isolated by the influencer.</span></span></li>
<li style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: lucida grande, tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 20px;">You cannot get consistently trusted referrals for resources from Newbies. They just don't have enough time in the game.</span></span></li>
<li style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: lucida grande, tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 20px;">Where do you find a community of your peers to create deep authentic relationships, with people that you can trust & rely on???? <a href="http://www.krlifestylebydesign.com/#!energy-summit/cdqx">Kimberly Reyes Energy Summit Community</a></span></span></li>
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As we rise… We need both. </div>
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Kimberly Reyes has
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<b><a href="http://www.krlifestylebydesign.com/#!energy-summit/cdqx">The Kimberly Reyes Energy Summit Community</a></b> <o:p></o:p></div>
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<o:p> At your level... You need to look outside of your community to find your tribe. Kimberly is hand selecting women from across the country and matching them with the "right fit" ... Kimberly Reyes is setting everyone up for Success!</o:p></div>
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<span style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span style="color: #b4a7d6; font-size: 14px;">To truly be vulnerable, open and going the extra mile on that journey takes something BIG and POWERFUL. We are on this journey together... but we all join it from a different place. What is easy for one may be difficult for the other and vice versa. When you are conscious of that, it allows you to receive the other person from where they stand, instead of projecting onto them. You truly gain the ability to see them without judge</span><span style="color: #b4a7d6; font-size: 14px;">ment.... Just from a place of love.</span></span></div>
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<b><span style="color: purple;">It's because we are afraid that we will be </span></b></div>
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<b><span style="color: purple;">when they see the real us.</span></b></div>
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<span style="color: #b4a7d6;"><span style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 19.31999969482422px;">I </span><span style="line-height: 19.31999969482422px;">publicly</span><span style="line-height: 19.31999969482422px;"> </span><span style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 19.31999969482422px;">offer my letter to her, that may have been private, as food for thought for the entire community. I am speaking for myself now. But, I encourage you all to think about what this means. What it would mean to you and what it looks like to offer it to someone else... to authentically embrace the words and deliver them from your heart. </span></span></div>
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<span style="color: #b4a7d6;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="line-height: 19.31999969482422px;">I have been gifted this message twice in my life from close friends and probably would have never been able to move into </span><span style="line-height: 19.31999969482422px;">vulnerability</span><span style="line-height: 19.31999969482422px;"> and sh</span><span style="line-height: 19.31999969482422px;">aring </span><span style="line-height: 19.31999969482422px;">without that security. </span></span></span></div>
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<span style="color: #b4a7d6;"><span style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 19.31999969482422px;">Read the message below to my friend and one of my alliance partners. Is this missing in your life? .... What would it look like to sit and </span><span style="line-height: 19.31999969482422px;">receive</span><span style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 19.31999969482422px;"> </span></span></div>
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<i><span style="color: #b4a7d6;">Dear Friend,</span></i></div>
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<i><span style="color: #b4a7d6;">I WILL NOT LEAVE YOU.</span></i></div>
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<i><span style="color: #b4a7d6;">As my friend, You are safe. You are INVITED to show up as you are... authentic, vulnerable, open and exposed. The good, the bad and the ugly... cause it's not always pretty for any of us. Once I invite you into my inner circle... and friend... I have... I will not leave you. That is my word to you.</span></i></div>
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<i><span style="color: #b4a7d6;">I respect you. I will not judge you. I will keep your words in confidence. It is a true gift of friendship when you allow yourself to be vulnerable, authentic and show your soft underbelly....</span></i></div>
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<i><span style="color: #b4a7d6;">You are invited to show up how ever your heart tells you to. You do not need to be afraid....</span></i></div>
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Anyone familiar with my <a href="http://www.krlifestylebydesign.com/">events</a> knows that I honor and appreciate art and artists. You will always find art, wine, cameos, pearls, sailing, water, boating, spas, etc... in everything that I do... The things that speak to my soul... What do I say? "If it doesn't make me happy or feed my soul, I am not doing it anymore!" Art speaks to my soul and evokes an emotional response. I love to share that with others and my design clients know that I introduce original art into each project... either as a purchase or a gift.</div>
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Art has played a major role in my life and I don't think that the artist always knows the impact that they create with their work.... All the pieces fell into place when I created and planned my last <a href="http://www.krlifestylebydesign.com/">Energy Summit</a> and had just 3 weeks to pull it together. One piece was that to my surprise, I was invited to hold it in Placerville (my home town that I had only recently visited for the first time in almost 20 years) and I had just started following an amazing photographer that happened to live in Placerville: Paul Cockrell . When I asked him to meet my group, he graciously agreed. </div>
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The town that I only pictured in my minds eye in black and white for more than 15 years... Has been brought to life and infused with color... It's charm and character that had been lost in my heart has been pulled forth with the obvious love and care seen through the photographer's lens. Paul has the amazing ability to make cold inanimate objects feel warm and inviting... Not just buildings, but metal and stone. He has gifted me with a shift of how I see my childhood town and enabled me to recall good memories that had long been put away... A trigger of color and warmth where there was none.<br />
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The big house on the hill looked pretty from the outside, but the neighbors knew. People in the community saw my family one way, when the reality was askew. We moved to Placerville when I was 6 and I left when I was 19. Thirteen years of hell. You never know what goes on behind closed doors. Once I pulled away, it was physically impossible to go back. I would start to have panic attacks as soon as I would start the ascent up the foothills... Many miles away... That was my reality and I just stayed away, blocking it from my thoughts.<br />
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A Facebook page and <a href="http://www.krlifestylebydesign.com/">reconnecting</a> with some wonderful souls from high school made me take another look. Opened my eyes and mind to the possibilities of even thinking about that town again, the time spent and experiences had...<br />
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More tools to shift my paradigm from one extreme to right of center... Would be the art that Paul unknowingly offers...<br />
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Sitting with anticipation on the curb near the Bell Tower... eating warm peanuts, watching down the street, enjoying the parade and keeping an eye out for the horses pulling the wagon trains... Flashy saloon girl costumes with stockings and heals... carts with goodies for sale... and the county fair that would follow the parade...</div>
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Exploring for hours the fields, meadows and forests... Large boulders partially buried in the ground,<br />
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worn out places in the rocks where the Indians had ground egg corns... Surrounded by majestic oak <br />
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Summers spent rafting down the American River, wading in looking for tadpoles, panning for gold...<br />
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Chasing cows that had gotten out, horses that needed a saddle, baby goats that needed to be bottle fed... or gathering the eggs that the chickens had laid. The various babies that lived in a play pen and needed their noses wiped and bellies full. Bunnies that multiplied... lessons learned... Animals of all sorts passed through and needed care.<br />
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The higher mountains with the smell of pine. The feel and smell of the damp forest floor and the crunch under foot... The hidden swimming holes and ponds for fishing...<br />
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<a href="https://www.facebook.com/paulcockrellphotography">Paul Cockrell</a> is following his passion. An engineer by trade. His art speaks to his sole and it shows in his work... It spoke to my soul. Thank you to Paul and check out more of his spectacular work. I am a fan. I am a Big Fan and I hope that you will be too.<br />
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You can find his work in person at <span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11.333333015441895px; line-height: 9.386666297912598px;"><b><a href="https://www.facebook.com/goldcountryartistsgallery/photos/t.100002040183835/711377915579254/?type=1&theater">Gold Country Artists Gallery on Main Street in Placerville. </a></b></span><br />
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You do matter. Just like Paul, who never knew the impact that his photography had on me... I am <a href="http://www.krlifestylebydesign.com/">POSITIVE</a> that you too move through the lives of others... touching, impacting and influencing those around you. What are you gifts? I ask my consulting clients to sit and make a daily gratitude journal. Not your ordinary gratitude journal... But, start paying attention to your day. Start noting the things that you do throughout your day that you do to be of value. What makes you special? What makes you... You? I think that you will be surprised and that you will begin to see yourself differently.<br />
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Go out and tell someone else today that they matter and share why they matter to you. The biggest gifts in my life have been from strangers. That is changing and <a href="http://www.krlifestylebydesign.com/">evolving </a>now. But, it has made a huge difference in my life. You can make that difference in the life of someone too! Do it big and let someone other than those in your inner circle know that they matter... and why. That is a precious gift that you can give.<br />
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I invite you to come back and share your experience... or go onto my<a href="https://www.facebook.com/KimberlyRLifestyleByDesign"> facebook page</a> ( don't forget to like it while you are there) and share in the post thread... Your story too, can change someone's day today.<br />
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When I talk about being a WE instead of a ME... It's a Lifestyle and Mindset. It is woven through out your life and encompasses how you move through the world. It really should be part of who you are and not a superficial action. Manifesting is fueled by this way of thinking, living and interaction.<br />
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Manifesting is all about energy: thoughts, actions, intentions, balance and more - all flowing together.<br />
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Who Is Interested in <a href="http://www.krlifestylebydesign.com/">Learning</a> More? I have been asked to do another workshop on manifesting... or a series of 1 Day workshops. Truly learning to shift your paradigms and manifest your destiny. Yes. I do it differently. Yes. I teach it differently. Yes. That is why people keep asking me to teach it. I am a Master Manifestor with years of proven success. Just like everything else I teach.... There are building blocks - simple tools and techniques that you can implement into your life. I break it down, make it manageable and easy to learn. I don't present this huge mystic concept. It is simplified for success....<br />
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Once you make <a href="http://www.krlifestylebydesign.com/">manifesting</a> a part of your life it works on it's own. Have you ever heard the phrase, "Careful what you wish for?" I know that my thoughts and words affect the outcomes in my life. I am mindful of what I say and think. There are times that I have put things in motion that feels like a freight train moving forward and that I have to be able to truly show up to be able to handle it... That train is moving ahead with or without me. I have made it so. You can make it So as well! What ever your heart desires... When you set your intentions into motion, big things will happen. Will you be able to truly show up and receive what you have asked for? That is part of the cycle. Make it happen and then follow through.<br />
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As long as you are living a balanced life and you're energy is flowing... manifesting flows through your life effortlessly... If you are in crisis... it can still work for you... it just takes more energy and effort on your part to get it flowing....<br />
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If something is in my <a href="http://www.krlifestylebydesign.com/">conscious </a>mind - it will manifest into my life in one way or another. I don't try to control it... I just acknowledge it when it appears and I am grateful. Those around me don't question it anymore. Sometimes they say it's freaky, sometimes they think it's cool. BUT, it is evident and consistent.<br />
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In my design business I have a Yelp page. I have had it up for about... 4 years or more... I have never had one call for work as a referral from Yelp. It was not my intention. I just filled it out for a landing page and to cover all of my bases online.<br />
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One day after working with a client, I identified the need for her to have more reviews on her yelp page so that she could get more calls and clients. That is where a good number of her leads were coming from. We needed to up the anti... so to speak. I went online to all of my social media sites and asked people to leave her positive feedback on her Yelp page so that she could get more business. I never thought about myself and I never asked for anything for myself. It was not in my conscious at all... I do not operate that way.<br />
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I was consulting on a remodel that the client was going to flip. She continued to ask me to consult on her personal home. "What other types of services do you offer? She started to explain how she had just had plans created by an architect and that she didn't feel comfortable with the design and she wasn't sure what to do.... FUNNY... I had just told my business coach <span style="background-color: white; color: #666666; font-family: Arvo, Arial, serif; line-height: 1.2em;"><a href="http://www.blazeabrilliantpath.com/about-blaze-lazarony/">Blaze Lazarony</a></span><br />
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the week before that I had this service that I offered to clients that I wanted to start promoting. I do it all of the time, but have never advertised that I offer it: I take plans that have been created by an architect and I critique and correct the design. Very often architects are great at 2D drawings but the designs are not livable once built. I can see the design on paper and see it spatially 3D in my head. I have the ability to describe that to my client. Walk them through the space and tell them what needs to be fixed... Play devil's advocate and then the architect can fix it on their end. This can save clients tens of thousands of dollars. It is fixed before the building starts. No mistakes, no change orders, reworks, lost time additional expenses. It's a life saver for many and I have kept a ton of homeowners from having a remodel that looks like what I call a Frankenstein house. You know them. The houses you walk into and say, "wow, this was a bad <a href="http://www.krlifestylebydesign.com/">remodel</a>..."<br />
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I spoke my desire out loud to my coach. I got the confirmation from the universe that I was headed in the right direction when my new manifested client asked me to do the service that I had just expressed in private to my coach. I asked for it... and it showed up. It happens just like a snowball picking up speed and along with desires and delivers them in a nice neat package.<br />
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Why does it matter? If we shift our paradigm, what difference will it make in our lives?</div>
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The verbiage was introduced to me during my first year in college. For decades there has been a grass roots movement going through the university to shift the paradigm of young students and have them see the global community in a new way regarding the environment, consumption, our footprint, earth, resources, human interaction and large scale and community. Me shifts to We as in One person being part of the global conscious community with shared resources. This movement has been accelerated with the access due to the Internet, and now the global community is smaller. </div>
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<li style="text-align: left;"><b><i>Romantic Relationships - </i></b>love yourself before you can truly love someone else or learn not to be selfish in a relationship so that you can function as a couple.</li>
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The topic is vast and yet it spurred on a thought and a discussion with my friend, mastermind partner and inner circle confidant<a href="https://www.facebook.com/pages/No-113-BRANDING/140478792695144"> Joie Gharrity </a>of <a href="http://113branding.com/">113 Branding</a>, that turned out to be quite intimate and hit very close to home. It's part of my brand and unique to my point of view. We talk a lot about community: at home and a far. There is much talk about self and self development/improvement. I don't think that there is enough focus on our personal connections with people outside of our intimate circle. Superficial connections don't benefit us personally or professionally. If they do... it is fleeting. Where is the satisfaction and Joy? Many times we end up feeling used, empty or as if time was expended without any reward.<br />
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This series is an exploration of life. What it looks like when we can shift our paradigms and move into a space where we are creating community closer to home. Establishing authentic connections through social, professional and intimate relationships. Making each interaction count and creating relationships that can last a lifetime.<br />
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As humans we all want to belong and feel like a part of <a href="http://www.krlifestylebydesign.com/#!networking/c2i9">community</a>. I believe that part of the process of creating MORE meaningful relationships is knowing who you are, seeing and honoring the person in front of you, accurately seeing them for who they are, and learning how to be the hostess/host of your space(TM). The hardest part is recognizing that we are focused on Me. Not in a clinically narcissistic way... But, more in a lone wolf for life kind of way. More tomorrow.....<br />
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<li>Many hours of manifesting, meditation and life changing conversations have been spoken between those walls!</li>
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<i>Pictures of the walls have appeared in over 2 dozen publications that I am aware of: newsletters, ebooks, video seminars, blogs, posts and more...</i></div>
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The room has served us well and now it is time to renew and restore it back to it's original... if not better state. </div>
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Today is about<a href="http://www.krlifestylebydesign.com/"> Connecting</a>: Socially, Professionally and Personally.<br />
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I have had four people tell me this week that they didn't want to craft their profile, bio, letter of intent or correspondence about themselves strategically. They want to throw it out there and have people take them as they are...<br />
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I hear a lot of... they take me as I am, this is the real me, I am not fake, I am not going to pretend...<br />
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That has nothing to do with it... Words are powerful and crafting them thoughtfully to Put Your Best Foot Forward is Smart. No one wants to hear you talk negatively. You get a very short amount of time to catch someone's attention. They say 6 seconds before they move on.<br />
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A Personal advertisement online and on paper is the Best You. Be You... But, be the charming You.<br />
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1 in 5 people getting married today have met online....<br />
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So much of life is how you present yourself.<br />
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It's not being fake or presenting a false picture of yourself... It is putting your best foot forward...<br />
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We all hate confrontation, disappointing or the idea hurting someone. But, How do you end a relationship?<br />
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<li>Be wishy washy and confuse the situation so that the other person doesn't know whether they should stay or go?</li>
<li>Start a fight so that the other person breaks up with you?</li>
<li>Create chaos to distract the other person and throw them off?</li>
<li>Be Honest and kind?</li>
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What is your break-up style? I hear so many different <a href="http://www.krlifestylebydesign.com/#!products/cfvg">tactics</a> and they are all just a little too complicated for me...</div>
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If you aren't a good fit... You aren't a good fit. Isn't it better just to tell the person that instead of leaving things open ended and up in the air? Really no need to go into a big explanation as to why you are not a good fit. That can just hurt people's feelings. What's the point? Isn't it better to have one short conversation when you know instead of waiting around until things are so uncomfortable that you have no choice but to have, "the talk?" </div>
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<b>So, if I know that they are not meant to be for the long haul, </b></div>
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<b>I let them know as soon as possible. </b></div>
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<span style="color: purple;"><b>Clearly... Simply... "I think you are a wonderful person, but we just aren't a good fit."</b></span></div>
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Leaving your reaction open to interpretation will never lead to a clear and decisive end... </div>
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When you say, "it's not you... it's me." That leaves room for people to think that you may get your act together and they could be back in the future. </div>
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If you say nothing encouraging or discouraging, thinking that they will just loose interest and float away... It may cause them to think that you are interested and just need to work a little harder... </div>
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What about the disappearing act? Do you know people in the same circles? Live in the same geographic area? Do you cringe every time you hear your phone ring or worry who you may run into around every corner? </div>
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A little uncomfortable up front saves you from a heck of A LOT of uncomfortable later....</div>
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<b>If I know that we are not a match made in heaven... </b></div>
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<b>I let them know as soon as possible. </b></div>
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<span style="color: purple;"><b>Clearly... Simply... "I think you are a wonderful person, but we just aren't a good fit."</b></span></div>
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Oh... the things that we say and do... </div>
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The anonymity of online or written word has led to some bad behaviors.</div>
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It's a big topic with social interaction. I am getting complaints left and right about people making rude comments in writing that they would never make in person.<br />
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I heard the analogy years ago... "We men cast a wide net and see what bites." </div>
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Maybe that is the same mentality with the written word and dating... Send out the normally offensive proposal and see who says yes???? I am not sure. Faceless, nameless seams to temper the fear and definitely create a veil for poor etiquette and discarded class. Does anyone for one moment think that anything healthy or positive can come of such interactions? A hook-up is easy everyday of every week. I guarantee that any woman could make it happen in less than an hour if that is what she wanted...<br />
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<b><a href="http://www.krlifestylebydesign.com/#!networking/c2i9">Networking</a>: </b>I was a guest on a radio show this week and the host was so irritated by her Facebook page and issues with members of her group, that we spent 16 minutes of a 30 minute interview discussing the etiquette of social media and how she could get people to better connect and engage. That was not the topic that we were supposed to address. So much frustration.<br />
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If you are only interested in yourself, your needs, wants and desires... Post online incessantly about your offer... on every page and empty post that you can find... You are only going to isolate yourself. More is not necessarily better. You will alienate your audience.<br />
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When you post in a group or on a page... notice the culture of the members involved. Check out the pinned post and rules at the top. Be conscious and courteous. Be your charming self online and in person. Be consistent. You may be the loveliest person face to face... BUT, if you act without integrity online... that is how you will be perceived in person.... Work smarter not harder....<br />
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A nameless, faceless presence does not give people cart blanch to trample all over other people.<br />
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It's so much about the <a href="http://www.krlifestylebydesign.com/#!networking/c2i9">Me</a> generation. If you honestly wish to connect in an authentic way with people... You need to switch from a ME to a WE. Be of service and think of others along your journey. That will only serve you in the end... Pay attention to your communication for 24 hours... How many times do you say Me or I? What about We or Us? Food for thought... How do people related with you? Are you a ME or a <a href="http://www.krlifestylebydesign.com/#!networking/c2i9">WE</a>?<br />
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<span style="color: #444444; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">How many times have you heard that there aren't any good people out there to date?</span></div>
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<span style="color: #444444; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Maybe you just aren't looking in the right place for YOU.</span></div>
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<span style="color: #444444; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">U.S. Statistics say that over <span style="background-color: white; line-height: 17.91111183166504px;">41,250,000 people have tried online dating. </span></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: white; line-height: 17.91111183166504px;"><span style="color: #444444; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">That doesn't even count ALL of the other options. </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white; line-height: 17.91111183166504px;"><b>I want everyone to be happy and in<span style="color: purple;"> </span><span style="color: red;">LOVE</span><span style="color: #444444;">!</span></b></span></span></div>
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<span style="color: #444444; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Are you Ready? There are so many ways to make the process fun... at least less painful :-)</span></div>
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<b><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Where do we meet people?</span></b></div>
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<span style="color: #444444; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">During the upcoming <a href="http://www.krlifestylebydesign.com/#!relationships/c1n50">workshop</a> we will be addressing where to go and help you identify which one is right for your personality style! </span></div>
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<span style="color: #444444; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">For goodness sake... Don't jump into them all right away. Pick one or two and give it a go!</span></div>
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<li><span style="color: #444444; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">local, regional and national Dating events</span></li>
<li><span style="color: #444444; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Singles Groups</span></li>
<li><span style="color: #444444; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Activities Groups</span></li>
<li><span style="color: #444444; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Paid Match making Services</span></li>
<li><span style="color: #444444; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Paid in person mixers: speed dating, slow speed dating, etc.</span></li>
<li><span style="color: #444444; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Online chats</span></li>
<li><span style="color: #444444; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Online dating/match sites - there are new ones popping up daily.</span></li>
<li><span style="color: #444444; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Online game and activity sites</span></li>
<li><span style="color: #444444; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Online specific interest community sites</span></li>
<li><span style="color: #444444; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Blind dates</span></li>
<li><span style="color: #444444; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">In Person meeting and connecting</span></li>
<li><span style="color: #444444; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Church</span></li>
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<span style="color: #444444; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">We could cover online dating sites for a whole day... Let's figure out your personality style and help you leverage your strengths to make this fun for you... Then we can figure out which venue will net you the <a href="http://total%20number%20of%20people%20in%20the%20u.s.%20who%20have%20tried%20online%20dating%2C%2041%2C250%2C000./">Best</a> results!</span></div>
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Kimberly Reyeshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06390421398615736547noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7215115009396694009.post-16381373339060436782014-02-07T12:23:00.000-08:002014-02-07T14:30:40.985-08:00Seeing an ex with someone else for the first time.... <br />
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This seems to be a hot topic right now. I have been fielding lots of calls and messages about this topic...What's my take?</div>
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<b><span style="font-size: large;"><i><span style="color: purple;">Ah... It's so complex.</span></i> </span></b></div>
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When a <a href="http://www.krlifestylebydesign.com/">relationship</a> ends, it's normally for a pretty good reason. It's not like things are lovey dovey and then we say, "Hey, let's go our own way." Sometimes it's ugly. It takes some trial and error, trying to work things out and then the separation process is long. We are talking about long term relationships here. Not casual or short term dating. </div>
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So, when we see our ex with someone new for the first time... it hurts. It doesn't hurt because we want them back. It damages the ego and exacerbates the sorrow. We are once again thrown back into the mourning process and straight into the anger phase.<br />
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<i><span style="color: purple; font-size: large;"><b>rational or irrational.</b></span></i></div>
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<li>Could my ex be giving someone new what we had been working so hard to achieve?</li>
<li>Did I go through hell to train them to be a better partner for someone else?</li>
<li>Have they fixed everything and I lost out?</li>
<li>Is it possible that he/she is better or more deserving than I am?</li>
<li>Wasn't I good enough? </li>
<li>Why couldn't they change for me?</li>
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Then we start questioning ourselves, our motivations... there is guilt... We want the other person to grow and be happy... and move on... but, what about me and all that I invested in the dream?<br />
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Cut yourself some slack! Time for some self love and care.... and then once you do that... you start to see the new partner's new love interest in a whole new way too. Of course you are a kind human being that wants everyone to have a happy, fulfilled life. But, you are part of this script. A close, personal player in this production. Let the guilt go... I personally think it's healthy to wish the other person be a little miserable. It's human. I hope it doesn't last a long time... But, what the heck? You are human and just the thought makes me laugh and move on.<br />
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Reality is... that unless the ex has done some extreme amount of work on themselves that they are just in the throws of a new <a href="http://www.krlifestylebydesign.com/">relationship</a> and on their best behavior. Those behaviors that ended the relationship are not gone. They are transferred to a new partner... They may look happy together and like everything is now perfect for your ex...<br />
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<b><span style="color: purple; font-size: large;">It's a mirage.</span></b></div>
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I say that you never know what goes on behind closed doors... but, if you were in a long relationship with your ex... You have a pretty good idea of the behaviors that go on behind closed doors...<br />
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<span style="color: purple;"><b>It's a mirage on the outside. The reality exists behind those doors.</b></span></div>
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It's not better for the new person. You can look at them in a more empathetic way and with more love in your heart at that point. That is healthy for you! You cannot intervene or try to warn the new partner. The knowing has to be for you alone... It doesn't mean that your ex is not a good person either. It just means that they aren't perfect. Those imperfections were not a good fit for you and now they are someone else's problem....<br />
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When you have all of the self talk, doubt and pain... shift your paradigm and you will be more at peace.</div>
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Cut yourself some slack. Be kind to yourself. You deserve to find and be with the partner that has the same <a href="http://www.krlifestylebydesign.com/">dream </a>and is working toward it with you in tandem. </div>
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