Dating Basics: GPS of Break Ups...

We all hate confrontation, disappointing or the idea hurting someone. But, How do you end a relationship?

• Go silent and just disappear?
• Be wishy washy and confuse the situation so that the other person doesn't know whether they should stay or go?
• Start a fight so that the other person breaks up with you?
• Create chaos to distract the other person and throw them off?
• Be Honest and kind?
• OR Honest and brutal?

What is your break-up style? I hear so many different tactics and they are all just a little too complicated for me...

If you aren't a good fit... You aren't a good fit. Isn't it better just to tell the person that instead of leaving things open ended and up in the air? Really no need to go into a big explanation as to why you are not a good fit. That can just hurt people's feelings. What's the point? Isn't it better to have one short conversation when you know instead of waiting around until things are so uncomfortable that you have no choice but to have, "the talk?"  

So, if I know that they are not meant to be for the long haul, 

I let them know as soon as possible. 

Clearly... Simply... "I think you are a wonderful person, but we just aren't a good fit."

Leaving your reaction open to interpretation will never lead to a clear and decisive end... 

When you say, "it's not you... it's me." That leaves room for people to think that you may get your act together and they could be back in the future. 

If you say nothing encouraging or discouraging, thinking that they will just loose interest and float away... It may cause them to think that you are interested and just need to work a little harder... 

What about the disappearing act? Do you know people in the same circles? Live in the same geographic area? Do you cringe every time you hear your phone ring or worry who you may run into around every corner? 

A little uncomfortable up front saves you from a heck of A LOT of uncomfortable later....

If I know that we are not a match made in heaven... 

I let them know as soon as possible. 

Clearly... Simply... "I think you are a wonderful person, but we just aren't a good fit."

THE END! 

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